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WE CAN DO HARD THINGS
“With God all things are possible.”
(Mark 10:27)
This inspirational quote and the scripture below it are hanging in my office. Strategically placed near my computer monitor, I look at those words rather often. The typographic weight of the inspirational quote draws your focus, but the scripture beneath those words offers hope over the challenge of “hard things.”
Our daily lives are filled with challenges, and the workplace is no different.
“That didn’t go the way I wanted/expected.”
“I have no idea how to fix this situation.”
“This feels like it is never going to get better.”
The last six months have been a period of transition at work, and these are all thoughts I have had at some point during this time period. These are
not necessarily thoughts I have vocalized, because I must consider the weight of my words.
Words have weight.
The hearts of the wise make their mouths prudent, and their lips promote instruction. Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. (Proverbs 16:23-24)
Notice the writer says “gracious words,” not “intrusive thoughts and words filled with gloom and doom.” We are also called to speak words that promote learning.
Tying back to my own thoughts – if I say to our team,
“that didn’t go the way I wanted,” there’s nothing valuable to them in that statement. It potentially leaves them feeling discouraged. They might believe any number of things that aren’t at all what I intend! By instead choosing gracious words, I can reframe a negative experience into something positive.
“I learned a lot from that experience, and I know we will be better equipped for that next time around.”
Doesn’t that sound better? Hopefully it provides a bit of comfort to those who share in my disappointment as well an encouragement that we will learn from the experience. After all, wisdom is better than gold.
The book of Colossians offers valuable instruction for us as Christians, as we consider the weight of our words:
Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. (Colossians 4:6)
Regardless of our occupation – our words have weight. Our words need not be flawlessly delivered scripture in order to glorify the Lord. Rather, we can speak with joy, offer words of encouragement, practice patience and kindness, and be humble before God as we do the work He has called us to do.
Whatever you do, work heartily as for the Lord and not for men. (Colossians 3:23)
By Jill Barnett
Jill is the General Manager and Executive Director of Lextran, the public transit provider in Lexington. She and her husband, Trevor (TJ), have three children and have been members of Immanuel since 2019.
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