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Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. (Ephesians 5:25)
The Gospel's profound impact on marital relationships is nowhere more evident than in the high calling
placed upon husbands. The apostle Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians, presents a radical model for
husbands—a love that echoes the depth, sacrifice, and purity of Christ's love for the Church. This single
verse, Ephesians 5:25, captures a transformative truth that, if embraced, can redefine the essence of
marital love and leadership.
To love as Christ loved is to commit to a love that is selfless and sacrificial. Christ's love for the Church
was not passive; it was active and purposeful. His love led Him to lay down His life, to surrender His own
comfort and glory, for the sake of humanity's redemption and sanctification. In the marital context, this
translates to a husband's willingness to put his wife's well-being and growth above his own needs and
desires. It is a love that serves, that protects, and that prioritizes the spiritual, emotional, and physical
welfare of one's spouse.
This level of love requires a profound understanding of the Gospel. Christ's sacrifice on the cross was the
ultimate act of love, one that brought grace, forgiveness, and new life to the Church. Husbands are
called to mirror this sacrificial love in their marriages, not as an act of condescension, but as an
expression of reverence for the divine union that marriage represents.
As husbands strive to imitate Christ's love, they must recognize the transformative power that such love
holds. It has the potential to create an environment of security and trust within the marriage, where
both partners can grow and thrive. It can break down barriers of fear and selfishness and build up a
relationship founded on mutual respect and genuine affection.
In practical terms, loving like Christ involves daily decisions and actions. It means listening intently,
speaking kindly, and acting generously. It involves forgiving readily and seeking forgiveness humbly. It is
about being present, both physically and emotionally, and about leading by example in matters of faith
and character.
This divine love is not about dominance or control; it is about partnership and unity. It is not about
demanding respect, but about earning it through consistent, Christ-like behavior. It is a love that does
not waver in the face of challenges but perseveres with hope and faithfulness.
In what specific ways can you, as a husband, demonstrate Christ's sacrificial love to your wife in your
daily life and relationship? Tomorrow, we will delve into the mutual responsibilities of children and
parents within the family.
By Jim Connell
Jim is the founder and retired director of Lexington Rescue Mission and the author of
JesusIsLordBlog.com
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