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Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of
the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church
submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. (Ephesians 5:22-24)
Today, we begin a five-part devotion series, "The Gospel and Relationships," where we will explore how the profound truths of the Gospel inform and transform our relationships. The apostle Paul's letter to
the Ephesians offers a blueprint for relationships that are deeply rooted in the love and grace that come
from our relationship with Christ.
Over the course of this series, we will delve into Ephesians 5:22-6:9, examining the roles and
responsibilities of wives, husbands, children, parents, workers, and leaders. We’ll see how these roles
are not just social constructs, but divine calls to reflect Christ's love to the world. Now, let's begin with
our first devotion, focusing on the instructions to wives found in Ephesians 5:22-24.
At first glance, Paul's words to wives in Ephesians 5:22-24 may seem archaic, perhaps even oppressive
by modern standards. However, to understand Paul's message, we must view these verses within the
larger context of the Gospel and the mutual submission that is called for in the verse that precedes this
passage (Ephesians 5:21).
The Greek word for "submit" is "hypotasso," which can also be translated as "to arrange under," "to subordinate," or "to yield to one's admonition or advice." It is a voluntary attitude of giving in, cooperating, assuming responsibility, and carrying a burden.
Paul's call for wives to submit is not a call to blind obedience or inferiority. Rather, it is an invitation to
model the relationship between Christ and the Church. Just as the Church recognizes the loving
authority of Christ and follows Him, wives are called to recognize the role of their husbands within the
context of marital unity. It is a picture of complementary partnership, where both husband and wife are
called to different roles but are equal in value and dignity.
In a Gospel-centered marriage, submission is not about power or dominance; it's about love and
respect. It's a dance of coordination, not a battle of competition. The husband's role, which we will
explore in the next devotion, is characterized by sacrificial love, mirroring Christ's love for the Church—a
love that led Him to lay down His life.
Consider how the Gospel shapes your view of submission within marriage. It is not about losing your
identity or voice but about finding harmony in the way God designed marital roles to function.
By Jim Connell
Jim is the founder and retired director of Lexington Rescue Mission and the author of
JesusIsLordBlog.com
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