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It was Thanksgiving, and my grandmother had decided to have a big dinner. We had a very small family locally, so inviting her siblings and their children from out-of-state was HUGE. It was going to be epic, and she was so excited – prepping a dozen side dishes, lining up the desserts, and popping a beautiful turkey into the oven. Family was milling around chatting and catching up -- everything my grandmother had hoped for. But then… we noticed the oven. There was a latch on the oven door that you locked for the cleaning mode. You got it… somehow in the hubbub, it was latched to “clean” mode. The turkey was now roasting at a balmy 500 degrees.
Anxiety and stress began to rise. A bit later there were raised voices from the family room. Some football banter started to get out of hand. And then, while eating, there was mention of “the turkey issue” -- and the stress continued to rise. Somehow the Norman Rockwell vision became more of an episode of All in the Family.
Family dinners. Am I right?
They immediately became suspicious of each other and began quizzing one another, wondering who might be about to do this. Within minutes they were bickering over who of them would end up the greatest. But Jesus intervened: “Kings like to throw their weight around and people in authority like to give themselves fancy titles. It’s not going to be that way with you. Let the senior among you become like the junior; let the leader act the part of the servant.” (Luke 22:23-26 MSG)
Even at the family dinner to beat all family dinners, there was bickering and jealousy. The stress and anxiety were high. But during their final meal together, Jesus washed the feet of His family. The meaning was layered. In this culture, a host would offer to wash their guests’ feet as a sign of hospitality. Since everyone wore sandals, it was a sweet sentiment of welcome and care. But now… it was also a great act of humility. Servants would have been the ones to actually wash feet. So, for Jesus to do it was His way of showing humble service to those He loved.
On this Maundy Thursday, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the cross, the death, the betrayal, and the heartache. But, friends, we can’t miss the hospitality and the service. The desire Jesus had to gather around the table and be with His people. Just like my grandmother, you don’t always know how it’s going to go… but the invitation is always worth it. We could laugh about the memories, and we loved way more about that day than we didn’t. I feel the disciples would have felt the same.
Make plans now to gather and serve the people you love. Even on the hardest days, it’s worth it.
By Carrie Peterson
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