Betrayal

Then Judas Iscariot, one of the Twelve, went to the chief priests to betray Jesus to them. They were delighted to hear this and promised to give him money. So he watched for an opportunity to hand him over. (Mark 14:10-11)
This is where I’d normally write an anecdote from my life or mental rolodex. But, since today we are talking about betrayal… it just doesn’t fit. We all have experiences we could quickly turn to, so no need for me to share an example. Experts in the mental health field and theologians both use the term, “Judas Experience.”
All of us have had a Judas Experience where someone we love, really care about, or even just like have betrayed us in some way. Maybe you have had a confidence crushed, a trust broken, or been broken-hearted by being severely betrayed. It’s more than painful; it’s devastating. Wherever you fall in this wide path of pain, please know I am sorry. I’m praying right now as we discuss these painful deceptions.
Because Jesus knew we would deal with it, He used that precious time in His final hours to teach us a great lesson.
As I said, everyone has been hurt at some time, in some way, by someone. Some betrayals cut deeper than others, and some have life-altering consequences; but all ravage our hearts and souls. And when it’s been done by someone we have much love for, it cuts even deeper.
We don’t have a lot of verses about the relationship between Jesus and Judas. But we do know Jesus loved Judas deeply. They would have lived, served, traveled, and ministered together. Eaten together. Laughed together. Experienced life together. So, yes, betrayal would have cut deep.
The Bible doesn’t tell us the why behind the act, but we do know Judas had moments where he put finances before faith. Remember when he was upset with Mary about pouring the perfumed oil? But, in the end, he was remorseful and forgiven. Forgiven by the One he betrayed.
That Wednesday of Holy Week, leading up to Easter, we see heartbreak and pain on the side of the betrayer and the one betrayed. I believe we don’t have a lot of “behind the scenes” narrative of the story, because this day wasn’t about Judas. It wasn’t about his attitude or relationship with Jesus. It was about Jesus knowing we’d need help in dealing with pain – and how to handle it.
Are you dealing with pain today? Are you still trying to heal the wounds left by a betrayal? You are loved and known by the One who understands. Curl up in His love, my friend… Sunday is coming.
By Carrie Peterson









