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Batman and Robin. Scooby Doo and Shaggy. Bert and Ernie. Some duos are so good together you never hear about one without the other!
Paul and Barnabas were the dynamic
duo in Acts. From the moment they met, you rarely find mention of Paul without the mention of Barnabas. They even went on a year-long mission trip together.
Then, it happened; they had a fight.
Some time later Paul said to Barnabas, “Let us go back and visit the believers in all the towns where we preached the word of the Lord and see how they are doing.” Barnabas wanted to take John, also called Mark, with them, but Paul did not think it wise to take him, because he had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not continued with them in the work. (Acts 15:36-38)
As they discussed their plans for the trip, they couldn’t reach an agreement on whether or not John Mark should join them. According to Colossians 4:10, John Mark was a cousin of Barnabas. The “son of encouragement” wanted to give his cousin a second chance. However, Paul saw something in John Mark’s level of commitment to the task that concerned him.
They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus, but Paul chose Silas and left, commended by the believers to the grace of the Lord. He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches. (Acts 15:39-41)
Now that’s a disagreement! They parted ways. They still continued spreading the gospel but formed two “teams.” We glean from scripture that they still got along as there are verses in which Paul speaks highly of John Mark and mentions Barnabas (2 Timothy 4:11, Colossians 4:10 and 1 Corinthians 9:6).
The relationship of Paul and Barnabas teaches us many things that can impact our relationships: the importance of encouragement, mentoring, and working well together. Their conflict, likewise, can help us as we navigate conflict in our relationships.
There are times when even godly people get to the point where there is no way to resolve the conflict. We should follow their example and agree to disagree while still keeping our focus on the importance of God’s mission. It is possible to hold incompatible views on something and still respect one another.
Conflict is impossible to avoid. It is not impossible, however, to deal with it in a way that honors God. Let’s follow the example of Paul and Barnabas when conflict occurs: agree to disagree.
By LaRaine Rice
This is adapted from a devotion that appeared in February 2019, The Mag, © WMU, SBC. Used by permission.
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