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Not long before he died, Samuel Taylor Coleridge, in a reflection on his life, wrote that
“Friendship is a sheltering tree…”
When my husband was diagnosed with cancer and we were still stunned, an elderly lady (in her
90’s) came to me after church one Sunday and said, “There’s not much I can do for you, but if
you come to my house, I can cry with you.” There it was – my sheltering tree! Her sweet
thoughtfulness brought something to my soul that made me smile inside and out – and
strengthened me for what was ahead.
For David, Jonathan was a sheltering tree – standing strong between David and his nemesis,
King Saul. At a point when David was so discouraged by his continuous struggles with one who
hated him, there was Jonathan saying the words David needed to hear: “Whatever you
yourself desire, I will do it for you” (1 Samuel 20:4).
David wanted Jonathan to be fully aware of King Saul’s determination to rid the world of the son
of Jesse, so they came up with Plan #1 to test the waters (1 Samuel 20:5-10). As David thought
about the way it all might play out, he asked Jonathan, “Who will tell me, or what if your
father answers you roughly?” (1 Samuel 20:10).
So, they came up with a creative way (Plan #2 – 1 Samuel 20:11-23) to inform David of the
results of the first plan – with no one else knowing anything about either plan. As it turns out,
Saul not only answered Jonathan roughly, he also angrily thrust a spear in his son’s direction
with intent to kill (1 Samuel 20:33). Jonathan was convinced, and Plan #2 was implemented.
As this scene comes to a close, we see David coming out from hiding and bowing down three
times before Jonathan (acknowledging him as prince). “And they kissed one another, and
they wept together…” (1 Samuel 20: 41) – both knowing that David must continue to be on the
run from the wrath of Jonathan’s father – yet being forever assured of Jonathan’s faithful love for
him.
Even the most independent people (who think they need no one) or those who aren’t really into
“people,” eventually come to a point where they need a sheltering tree – another human being
whose mature branches provide refreshment and comfort. Remember God’s words recorded in
the book of Genesis: “It is not good that man should be alone” (Genesis 2:18).
Just as there will be times when you need a sheltering tree, also remember that you need to
nourish yourself with the truth of God’s Word, so you can be a sheltering tree for someone else.
By Judy Shrout
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