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Several years ago, my wife and I went out to dinner to celebrate her birthday. Our server was a nice young lady, probably around age twenty. She must have asked if we were celebrating something because I can’t imagine us volunteering that it was Laura’s birthday. In the ensuing conversation, the actual number came up. The girl’s eyes brightened.
“Really? No way! I sure hope I look that good when I’m that age.” Except that’s not what she said. What she said was: “I hope I can look that good when I’m that old!”
As soon as the words came out, this poor young lady started backtracking so earnestly you could almost hear that beeping sound that commercial trucks make. She apologized profusely, insisting she didn’t mean to imply Laura was
old. We had a good laugh, and I thought the whole scene was charming. (Laura even ended up with a free dessert of apology.)
The concept of “putting your foot in your mouth” means saying something without thinking – perhaps something embarrassing or tactless. There’s a great example of this from when Jesus was selecting His disciples:
Philip found Nathanael and told him, “We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law, and about whom the prophets also wrote – Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.” (John 1:45)
Philip had sought out Nathanael (later known as Bartholomew) to share with him this amazing, life-altering news. So how did Nathanael respond?
“Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?” Nathanael asked. (John 1:46)
Nathanael’s response was in no way loving or tactful, but I sure find it relatable. The news didn’t make sense to him, so he was immediately skeptical and responded in a way that, unless I’m just missing something in translation, sure seems snarky. But look at how Jesus described Nathanael:
When Jesus saw Nathanael approaching, he said of him, “Here truly is an Israelite in whom there is no deceit.”
(John 1:47)
You or I might have said, “What a smart aleck!” -- but Jesus observed that Nathanael had no deceit. Nathanael had spoken harshly, probably without thinking things through, and said something that was completely wrong. But Jesus looked at the positive in Nathanael. Sure, he stuck his foot in his mouth, but he said exactly what he was thinking. How powerful might one who speaks his mind in a compelling fashion be once he gets his mind in the right place?
What personal traits do you have, traits that perhaps even get you into trouble sometimes -- traits that could be turned into a mighty force under Jesus’ direction?
By Mark Stuart
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