Not How I Planned It

Mark Stuart • December 20, 2023

This week we’re closing out a devotion series on the Book of Ruth.


I disagreed with how something was done recently at our church. Don’t get nervous - I’m NOT going to

say anything controversial.


This thing I didn’t like was a very small thing. It was just one of those little things that made me say,

“Huh. That’s not how I would have done that.” And then I moved on and everything was fine. No big

deal.


Except.


Except that evening my wife told me a story about somebody who had been deeply impacted by

something at church that morning. And yes, of course it was the little thing I didn’t like that had been so

meaningful to them.


Sometimes what we want isn’t the best for somebody else, or what goes poorly can turn in a positive

direction. Naomi and her family had to relocate due to a famine. Then her husband died. Then both her

sons died. Here is an example of her mental state when encouraging her daughters-in-law to leave her

and return to their families:


“…No, my daughters, my life is much too bitter for you to share, because the Lord’s hand has turned

against me.” (Ruth 1:13 HCSB)


Now let’s skip to the end of the story, after Ruth refused to leave her, remarried, and had Naomi’s

grandson, about whom this was said:


“He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age. Indeed, your daughter-in-law, who loves you

and is better to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.” Naomi took the child, placed him on her

lap, and took care of him. (Ruth 4:15-16 HCSB)


I would like to know what Naomi said after placing her infant grandson on her lap. I am guessing it was

not about how bitter her life was. Not every problem is going to have a happily-ever-after ending. I am

confident that Naomi still grieved the loss of her husband and sons alongside her newfound joy.


But during times of suffering or disappointment, we should remember that the God who watched over

Naomi is watching over us. Something we don’t want might be God’s way of revealing something

unexpected to us or reaching somebody else. A difficult time can lead to a time to rejoice. And some

things we will simply not understand. But we’re not alone.


“…And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20 HCSB)


By Mark Stuart


Mark is the husband of Laura, father of Shelby and Jacob, and father-in-law of Bailey.

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By Mark Stuart April 10, 2025
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By Mark Stuart April 8, 2025
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