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This week we’re closing out a devotion series on the Book of Ruth.
The building where I attended middle school was recently demolished. I happened to drive by it during
our Thanksgiving visit to my hometown, and seeing it (or the remaining parts of it) one last time
generated a flood of memories. Going to middle school was a big deal to me, perhaps because I had an
elementary school teacher who made a big deal of the transition to get us prepared.
Going into sixth grade I attended an open house with my parents. While students toured the building in
groups, the principal spoke to the parents. Later my dad told me that the principal gave parents some
advice about paying close attention to your child’s friends because of how big an influence they would
be during this crucial stage of development. That I still remember this conversation over forty years later
speaks to the impact it had on me.
Fortunately for me, the crowd I fell in with was a group of good-natured doofuses which, if we’re being
honest about middle school boys, was a win. Friends are going to be influential in our lives, so it’s
important to find some who will do so in a positive way.
In Ruth chapter four we get a glimpse into Naomi’s friend circle, and my conclusion is that they were a
solid group…
Then the women said to Naomi, “Praise the Lord, who has not left you without a family redeemer
today. May his name become well known in Israel.” (Ruth 4:14 HCSB)
It would have been nice for these friends to show up and simply be supportive and celebrate this good
news, but they did more than that. They praised the Lord for the baby. The same Lord about whom
Naomi had said this:
“….No, my daughters, my life is much too bitter for you to share, because the Lord’s hand has turned
against me.” (Ruth 1:13 HCSB)
Do you have any friends who are prone to bitterness and complaining? Sometimes we wallow in
disappointment to seek attention and sympathy, like how pigs wallow in mud to seek relief from the
heat. If we’re not careful we can get enough layers of disappointment caked on that we’re barely
recognizable.
In the book of Ruth there is a lot we can learn from the named central figures, but these unnamed
women have a lesson for us too. If the tiniest of lights can transform a dark place, just maybe a small
encouragement can sweeten a bitter attitude.
By Mark Stuart
Mark is the husband of Laura, father of Shelby and Jacob, and father-in-law of Bailey.
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