An Unlikely Friendship

If you were a “Jeopardy” contestant, and one of the squares under the Bible category read
“David’s Friend,” you would no doubt quickly respond, “Who is Jonathan?” David and Jonathan
even today are the poster people for “friendship.”
We are so familiar with their story that we probably overlook something rather important, namely
that their friendship was a highly unlikely one. In normal circumstances, they probably would
never have met – ever!
Let’s take a quick look at these two young men…
David was a shepherd – the youngest of a bunch of brothers. His dad, Jesse, didn’t even line
him up with the other brothers when Samuel came to anoint a future king. In today’s
terminology, we might call him the runt of the litter – tanned and dirty from being outdoors
tending his sheep. His hands would have been rough, his clothing would have been rather
ordinary – and probably smelled a lot like those sheep.
And then there’s Jonathan, the son of a king. Royalty! Next in line to be king himself – or so
everyone thought. Jonathan would have had all the riches available at that time – and would
never have needed to dirty his hands with the task of shepherding. He would have worn royal
robes on special occasions, and even his everyday wear would have been of the finest quality.
Yet… in God’s perfect providence, they did meet and formed a covenant relationship. Here’s
how it all began:
Sometime after David took down Goliath with a stone and a slingshot, Jonathan was listening in
as his father, King Saul, asked David, “Whose son are you, young man?”
So David answered, “I am the son of your servant Jesse the Bethlehemite.”
Now when he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of
David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul... Then Jonathan and David made a
covenant because he loved him as his own soul. (1 Samuel 17:58-18:3 NKJV)
We don’t know what it was about that conversation that touched Jonathan’s heart – it might
have been David’s tone of voice or demeanor – or his humility before King Saul. Whatever God
used to connect their hearts forms the beginning of a story that has informed and blessed
believers for centuries.
Take a moment to reflect on your friendships – how they started – and perhaps how unlikely
some of them might be. And thank God for the gift of human friendship.
By Judy Shrout









